This blog post was contributed by Stacey Hammond. She asked if she could share a personal story involving birth and death records and of course we had to oblige! Read her intriguing tale:
“Like many children, I grew up without a father. He stuck around until I was around three. That was when he left my mother and moved to another state across the country. He continued to send me birthday cards and occasional gifts and letters, but that was pretty much the only contact we had. By the time I was 12 or so, I stopped hearing from him altogether.
Of course this was a painful experience for me, but I had to stay strong and learn to take it one day at a time. I held out hope that one day I would reconnect with my father.
Years later, I found myself applying for a passport. I needed a copy of my birth certificate, and after some frustrating experiences with Vital Records, I tried going online to find it instead. I was very intrigued to learn how easy it was to look up birth and death records on the internet, as well as all kinds of other public records.
For a while I debated looking up public records on my father so I could find out exactly where he was staying and try to contact him. Later, I decided it might be a better idea to just leave him alone. I figured if he wanted to talk to me, he would seek me out. But my curiosity got the better of me and I decided to perform a little experiment!
I had never known my grandparents on my father’s side, so I thought I would use the information in public birth and death records to find out as much as I could about them! I started by looking up my father’s birth records. It was incredibly easy using BirthDetails.com. I found him almost immediately! I wrote down the names of his mother and father as they appeared on the birth certificate.
Then I performed a birth records search on each of them. I found out where and when they were born. I found out my grandmother was born in Florida and my grandfather in Indiana. Somehow, the two of them had met and moved to North Carolina, where my father was born. I looked up their names using a free address search but wasn’t able to find anything.
This led me to believe that perhaps they were deceased, so I decided to look up death records. Sadly, I found that both of them had passed away many years ago. But using the extensive information I found, I was able to find out the exact cemetery where they were buried.
A few weeks later, I took a small road-trip to the cemetery in North Carolina. I was able to view their graves. I talked to them a little bit, told them that I loved them, wished that I had gotten a chance to know them, and left flowers on their graves.
The whole experience was very fulfilling for me, and it wouldn’t have been possible without BirthDetails.com and easy access to birth and death records!